ask a stranger
- Disculpe, ¿por dónde queda el metro? Excuse me, where is the metro?
- ¿Está cerca? Is it close?
- ¿Sigo derecho? Do I keep going straight?
- Me perdí un poco. I got a little lost.
getting around
The map says one thing, the street says another, and a stranger can fix your day if you ask cleanly.
Use This First
Textbooks give you ¿dónde está? and it works. But listen to how people in Mexico City actually ask and you will hear queda constantly: ¿por dónde queda el metro?, ¿queda lejos? Quedar is doing a job that estar cannot quite do. It asks roughly where something sits in relation to here, which is what you actually want to know when you are lost.
The answers come back in a shape worth expecting. Derecho means straight ahead, not right - that is derecha, and the two are one letter apart in the one moment you cannot afford to confuse them. Distance usually arrives as blocks, dos cuadras, or as time, como diez minutos caminando. Rarely as metres.
Opening with disculpe rather than perdón is the small thing that makes the exchange go well. Perdón is for apologising; disculpe is for interrupting a stranger. And admitting it plainly with me perdí un poco tends to get you a better answer than pretending you nearly have it, because people will walk you to the corner rather than gesture.
| Spanish | English | Use case | Safety |
|---|---|---|---|
| Disculpe, ¿por dónde queda el metro? | Excuse me, where is the metro? | asking directions | safe |
| ¿Está cerca? | Is it close? | distance check | safe |
| ¿Sigo derecho? | Do I keep going straight? | route check | safe |
| Me perdí un poco. | I got a little lost. | soft confession | safe |
| A la derecha. | To the right. | direction | safe |
| A la izquierda. | To the left. | direction | safe |
| Cruza la calle. | Cross the street. | direction | safe |
| Por aquí está bien. | Here is fine. | drop-off | safe |
the gringo trap
Do not ask ¿dónde es? when you mean where is it located.
Use ¿dónde está? or ¿por dónde queda?
Queda is one of the most useful location verbs in Mexican street directions.
safe / local / spicy
Disculpe, ¿dónde está el metro?
Disculpe, ¿por dónde queda el metro?
Ando perdido, ¿sí voy bien para el metro?
The spicy version is friendly and human, but a little more vulnerable.
lost near the metro
checking the route
three fast taps before you try it outside.
You want to ask where the metro is.
You need the safest version for directions. What do you pick first?
Which move avoids the gringo trap?



Disculpe, ¿por dónde queda...? Disculpe opens the interruption politely and queda is the verb locals reach for. ¿Dónde está...? also works and sounds slightly more textbook.
Derecho means straight ahead. Derecha means right. They are one letter apart and confusing them is the most common direction mistake learners make.
Usually in blocks - dos cuadras - or in walking minutes. Addresses often come with cross streets attached, because that is how people locate things in conversation.