Things you do

Verbs and verb phrases for the small social moves — covering for a friend, backing out, roasting someone, playing dumb.

Things you do

25 words
echarse un coyotito - a young man asleep sitting up on a bus with his cap pulled down
echarse un coyotito: A little coyote, because coyotes doze by day Oct 14, 2026
sacar boleto - two friends holding back a third who is squaring up to someone at a bar
sacar boleto: Somebody is putting on a show. Are you buying? Oct 11, 2026
se me antoja - a woman turning her head toward a churro cart as she walks past
se me antoja: How is a craving different from wanting? Oct 9, 2026
se le fue el avión - a colleague waving a hand in front of a man staring blankly past his laptop
se le fue el avión: Say it about a person and you just wrote them off Oct 7, 2026
echar aguas - a young man keeping watch at the corner while another crouches over a bike
echar aguas: Somebody used to shout it from a window Oct 6, 2026
apapachar - a grandmother and her grandson holding each other in a long hug at the door
apapachar: The Nahuatl root is real. The translation everybody quotes is not Sep 29, 2026
hacer el paro - a young man at a bar passing a folded note to a friend who has left his wallet behind
hacer el paro: One favor, and the word for it is not favor Sep 20, 2026
rajarse - a woman lying on her bed with her phone, backing out of a night she was dressed for
rajarse: The one that turns flaking into a character flaw Sep 16, 2026
chamaquear - a market vendor counting change back into a young man's hand while he frowns at it
chamaquear: Somebody decided you were young enough to fool Sep 10, 2026
no me pela - a young man shrugging at a bar while the woman beside him looks the other way
no me pela: Two blue ticks and no reply, in three words Sep 8, 2026
clavarse - a young man quietly pocketing a lighter at a party while another man watches
clavarse: One verb for pocketing it and for falling for it Sep 7, 2026
andas bien al pendiente - a woman setting a coffee down for a friend working at a cafe table
andas bien al pendiente: How much attention is too much attention? Aug 29, 2026
echar porras - a woman clapping and cheering a runner on around a track
echar porras: 9pm, group chat, and somebody has an interview tomorrow Aug 27, 2026
te andan pedaleando la bicicleta - two friends looking at a phone together, one breaking bad news to the other
te andan pedaleando la bicicleta: Nobody in this sentence owns a bicycle Aug 26, 2026
ponchar - a young man frowning at his phone at a sidewalk table
ponchar: Group chat, 8pm, and the third 'sorry, next week' Aug 15, 2026
tirar la onda - a man leaning in over a bar table to a woman who is enjoying the attempt
tirar la onda: A Condesa bar, two beers in, nobody has said anything direct yet Aug 11, 2026
cortar - a couple sitting apart on a curb at night, one hand still on the other's shoulder
cortar: The same verb for hair, cake, and a five-year relationship Aug 8, 2026
echarse un taco - a young man walking toward a taco stand at golden hour
echarse un taco: Two coworkers, 2pm, already halfway out the door Jul 29, 2026
chingar - a woman rolling her eyes and covering her ears at the drilling coming through the ceiling
chingar: One verb that can mean work, fail, steal, break, or worse Jul 28, 2026
echar los perros - a young man leaning on the wall over a woman, laying on the charm
echar los perros: You throw dogs at someone. Somehow that means you like them Jul 21, 2026
cotorrear - three friends leaning on a wall with coffees, all talking at once
cotorrear: Three hours of talking and nothing was decided Jul 11, 2026
tronar - two women on a park bench, one crying while the other holds her
tronar: What do a relationship and a failed exam have in common? Jul 5, 2026
echar la hueva - a young man stretched out asleep on a red sofa with his phone on his chest
echar la hueva: Literally about testicles. In practice, a nap Jul 2, 2026
echar un rol - two friends cycling down a street with bags of pan dulce on the handlebars
echar un rol: Driving nowhere in particular, on purpose Jun 28, 2026

About things you do

Hacer el paro, rajarse, batear, hacerse pato, echar carrilla, dar el avión. These are the phrases for things people do to each other, and they are where Mexican Spanish gets genuinely expressive — there is a specific verb for nodding along to someone purely to get them to stop talking.

Because they are verbs, the hard part is not the meaning, it is the shape. You will hear me hizo el paro long before you hear hacer el paro, and the reflexive and pronoun forms are where learners stall. So these pages show the phrase as it is actually said, conjugated, in the person you will need.

Verbs that name a social act, not an action

What holds this category together is that every phrase names something you do to or with another person, rather than something you do in the world. Backing out, covering for somebody, chatting them up, letting them down gently. The physical content is close to zero; the social content is the whole thing.

That makes them harder to look up than ordinary verbs, because a dictionary gives you the mechanics and misses the etiquette. Knowing the words inside a phrase for cancelling tells you nothing about how much notice is expected, whether a reason is required, or what happens if you leave the reschedule vague. The phrase is a script, and the script has rules.

It also makes them unusually high-value. These are the phrases that decide whether people invite you a second time. Learners tend to prioritise nouns and end up able to name everything in a room while unable to decline an invitation without causing a small injury.

Things you do — common questions

Why are these harder than normal verbs?

Because the meaning sits in the etiquette rather than the action. A dictionary gives you the mechanics of a phrase for cancelling; it does not tell you how much notice is expected, and that is what people actually judge.

Which of these matters most for daily life?

Anything to do with making, changing or cancelling plans. That is the machinery of a social life, and getting it wrong is the quickest way to stop being invited.

Can I translate these directly from English?

Rarely well. English social scripts run on explicitness and apology; Mexican ones run on softness and indirection. A literal translation is usually understandable and lands heavier than you meant.

Do these change between formal and casual settings?

The structure holds and the vocabulary shifts. The same move has a version for friends and a version for work, and mixing them up is more noticeable than a grammar mistake.