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Greetings, politeness, and the warnings locals give — how not to come across as rude.
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Greetings, politeness, and the warnings locals give each other. Mostly, this is about how not to come across as rude while saying nothing rude at all.
Mexican politeness runs on indirectness, and English speakers tend to be blunter than they realise. The soft no, the warm brush-off, the invitation that isn't one — these are the things that make foreigners think Mexicans are unreliable and make Mexicans think foreigners are abrupt. Both are wrong, and this is where that gets untangled.